Can visiting a swingersclub damage our relationship ?
Very rarely , most relationships are better for it.
Do we have to join in the fun?
Not at all, you are free to do as much or a little as you like, remember that people visit swinger clubs for many different reasons, some just to watch and be watched, others to experience full partner swaps and everything in between, set your own rules before you go........ And as always NO MEANS NO.
What do we wear?
The dress code varies from club to club, in some clubs there are very few dress rules, some like you to change into towels, and others have a very strict "sexy dress" code. Our advice is to check the club website or contact by phone or email before you visit, but remember you are visiting a swinger club for erotic fun and possibly to engage with other couples so it's much better to look as sexy as possible, that is why we recommend that the ladies wear sexy lingerie and gents a pair of trendy boxers or (if you have the courage) a sexy thong, if you need some ideas visit our Discount Club Wear site via the links on this page.
What type of people visit swinger clubs?
All kinds of people from all walks of life, there is no such thing a swinger stereotype.
What's the average age of swingers?
All ages, we know couples that are still swinging in their late 60's and there has recently been a lot of growth in the 20's age group, but the majority are between 30 and 50.
Do all swingers look like models?
No you don't have to worry, . as we say above swingers come from all walks of life, all age groups, and all shapes and sizes. It is much more important that you make the best of yourself, an unkempt look or an unshowered smell will not do you any favours.
What about single men?
Many clubs admit single men, and many couples want to have fun with them, but equaly many others prefer to be in a couples only environment, again we would stress that you set your ground rules before you go, look at the clubs website, some clubs are couples only, others have couples only nights, if in doubt pick up the phone and ask.
What about single women?
Most clubs admit single women, and again many couples want to have fun with them, a lot of women who visit swinger clubs feel attracted to other women, but as always.... NO MEANS NO.
How do we contact other couples?
Some people break the ice by a simple introduction in the bar or lounge areas, try to join their conversation but don't be pushy, and you'll find that most of will be happy to chat and answer any questions you may have, and you never know, you may get lucky. Others just like to get on with it in the open playrooms by usualy having sex with their own partner then using "wandering hands" towards nearby couples. Try different scenarios and see what you are comfortable with, don't forget to discuss it with your partner, and as always...... NO MEANS NO.
What if we meet someone we know?
If this happens it will be a surprise for both parties.
Say hello, don't run away, they will probably be as embarrased as you and they are hardly going to tell your neighbours where they have seen you, and you never know, it could be the start of a whole new type of friendship.
Is safe sex practised?
In many swinger clubs condoms are provided, but be sure to take some of your own.
Safe sex and the use of condoms is a choice you and any other partner you engage with make for yourselves.
Do we have to make a reservation when visiting a club?
Some of the busier clubs do require that you make a reservation, but most allow you to turn up on the door, if in doubt check the website or call. |
